Sex Tourists
WHY MEN TRAVEL TO ASIA to be with Asian girls?
… for some men it’s the sex but for many it’s other things.
Companionship
Many men feel lonely and isolated and travel to Asia to seek companionship. I have a friend that visited me here a while ago. He stayed with the same girl for two weeks and I subsequently found out that they had sex a total of three times. He always talked about finding a girl in terms of good company and not her sexual skills or attributes. He is married back home to women that is happily getting it elsewhere. They have been in separate bedrooms for more than a year. The three times he had sex while in Asia was also the total for the entire year.
Self Esteem
There is also the restoration of self-esteem. Anyone over 30 knows how bleak the dating scene is for both men and women in the West. Perhaps its mismatched or unrealistic expectations on both sides, but the bottom line is many men over 30 feel rejected and unwanted. Their self-esteem is shot to pieces. A trip to Asia and the attention of beautiful nubile girls can restore their self-esteem and confidence. The sex is vital but at the same time secondary to this.
Escape
There is also the holiday factor and escape from the rigid politically correct constraints of Western societies. Many tourists enjoy the unregulated and undisciplined (and often chaotic) environment where they are able to live out a fantasy that often is not sexual.
Fantasy
The bus driver back home that lives meagerly and saves all year can come to Asia and pretend to be rich and important for a week. Back home the same holiday savings might only buy a budget holiday in a location where restaurants and entertainment is expensive.
Drink
Then there are the alcoholics that come here to drink themselves to oblivion for a couple of weeks. I know some that would prefer to get drunk than have sex and do so night after night. While not homosexual they prefer the company of other guys or drinking buddies. Some occasionally take a girl. They may or may not have sex with them. I have known a lot of guys that fall into this category – should they be classified as sex tourists?
Power
There are also men that enjoy the feeling of power over women and are generally denied this back home. Some of these men can be abusive and even sadistic. It was Friedrich Nietzsche that first proposed that rape was about power and not sex and this idea has been adopted by feminists. I think this is correct in many cases. Likewise for some men the sex is about expressing power over your partner and sadly girls in Asia are vulnerable to these abusive types who can get away with this behavior in Asian that would not be acceptable back home.
Sex
Finally there is SEX. The sex tourist does exist and I am not trying to make out they don’t. In fact I fall into this category probably more than the others. I am a sex addict. I just love fucking and pursuing my own sexual fantasies.
There are a lot of very sexually frustrated men in the West with no “normal” avenues of relief. Western women tend to use sex to blackmail and manipulate men and withdraw it as punishment. I have known more than few marriages that have failed because the wife will not put out. I am not talking daily or even weekly but where the frequency is less than once a month.
Libido varies from man to man but most men would want sex at least once a week. I personally NEED it every day and twice a day is perfect.
So what are the options of a sexually frustrated guy in the West:
Celibacy - Many men try repressing their libido and live very angry and frustrated lives. It’s just not natural and healthy. We all know what happens to catholic priest when they try to live a life a celibacy.
Dating - Very bleak and fruitless for most
Porn – it’s huge and provides relief to millions of men but is ultimately only a substitution that is not completely satisfying
Prostitutes – Using local prostitutes is another alternative but in the west they are business like and while they provide a sexual release do nothing to restore the male ego and self-esteem. If you actually work out the cost of a trip to Asia and engaging a local prostitute once a week it is actually cheaper to stay home and use the services of prostitutes. So why do men travel to Asia – its not simply sex.
Girl Friend Experience ( GFE )
In Asia you can get the GFE. The girls not only fulfill your every sexual need but also emotional. They make the guys feel special again. Many guys fall under the spell of these professional girl friends and believe the fantasy is real. Many men have been fleeced and emotionally devastated by Asian girls providing the GFE. It begs the question WHO IS EXPLOITING WHO?
Labeling all the single men that travel to Asia as sex tourists is erroneous.
As I have explained above some come here mainly for companionship, many because it restores the self-esteem making them feel valued again. Others come here to escape from the highly regimented and politically correct west. Some enjoy the fantasy of pretending they are rich and important while back home they feel like nobodies. There are those that just like to drink themselves to oblivion with buddies. A few like to dominate and have power over others and find Asian women easy to abuse. Then there is the genuine sex tourist that loves fucking. In reality most people fit into more than one of the above categories.
SEXUAL REPRESSION
The West is sexually repressed due to our Judo-Christian heritage and it is my contention that sexual perversions including pedophilia are a consequence of this.
Men are under constant attack and made to feel guilty about the natural sexual instincts. If a 40 year old guy looks with lust at a 20 year old girl then they are “dirty old men”.
Men are programmed to seek out and procreate with healthy fertile young women.
Likewise Women are programmed to look for health virile men able to support and protect her offspring.
Sigmund Freud’s definition of sexual perversion is any sexual act that is not in accordance with these imperatives.
At the same time homosexual relationships are now officially condoned by western societies and even promoted to youth as a “life style choice”
AGE OF CONSENT
The age of consent in many courtiers has been arbitrarily set to 18. This does not reflect sexual maturity. It is a known fact that we are physically maturing faster – especially in the west. I understand that the age of consent is set in relation to mental and not physical maturity. In my opinion 18 is really too high and does not reflect the reality of today’s societies either here in Asia or the West. A more realistic age of consent would be 16 as in Australia.
This is relevant because there is much publicity about child sex tourism and the statistics look alarming. A huge percentage of these so called child sex statistics relate to girls aged 16 and 17. I would not consider anyone engaging in sex with a 16 or 17 year old a pedophile in the true sense of the term.
IMPORTANT – IN NO WAY DO I CONDONE SEX WITH LEGALLY UNDERAGE GIRLS. The above is just an opinion I have expressed. I strongly recommend you fully comply with, and respect the laws of the country you are visiting. The consequences of being caught engaging in sex with underage girls are very serious. In addition to serving out a jail term you will also be labeled a pedophile and put on a sex offenders list. Basically your life will be pretty FUCKED! It just is not worth it.
There are so many sexy nubiles 18 and above available and the irony is that you can find 18 your old girls look younger than many 16 year old girls if it’s a youthful appearance you seek. SO MY ADVICE IS AVOID UNDERAGE GIRLS LIKE THE PLAGUE
If you are unsure of a girl’s age or one of those who due to unfamiliarity say they can not tell then stick with the legally operated bars where the girls have an ID to legally prove they are 18 or above.
This article was inspired by and article on the Brave New Traveler titled The Shameful Truth about Sex Tourism